{"id":2275,"date":"2013-07-30T10:01:32","date_gmt":"2013-07-30T09:01:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lgbt.fo\/2013\/07\/30\/folkid-hevur-talad-foroya-folk-vil-javnseta-samkynd\/"},"modified":"2013-07-30T10:01:32","modified_gmt":"2013-07-30T09:01:32","slug":"folkid-hevur-talad-foroya-folk-vil-javnseta-samkynd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lgbt.fo\/en\/2013\/07\/30\/folkid-hevur-talad-foroya-folk-vil-javnseta-samkynd\/","title":{"rendered":"F\u00f3lki\u00f0 hevur tala\u00f0: F\u00f8roya f\u00f3lk vil javnseta samkynd"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cd heyst skal L\u00f8gtingi\u00f0 taka st\u00f8\u00f0u til eitt s\u00f8guligt m\u00e1l: Eigur samkynt hj\u00fanaband at loyvast og javnstillast \u00ed l\u00f3gini? Greitt er, at v\u00ed\u00f0a um \u00ed heiminum gerst almannahugsanin\u00a0um hj\u00fanabandsjavnst\u00f8\u00f0u alt meiri jalig. Men skulu vit f\u00e1a grei\u00f0u \u00e1, um ta\u00f0 er h\u00f3skandi at fremja politiskar broytingar \u00ed F\u00f8royum, mugu nakrir t\u00fd\u00f0andi spurningar fyrst vi\u00f0gerast: Hvat vil F\u00f8roya f\u00f3lk, og hvussu man l\u00f8ggilding av samkyndum hj\u00fanabandi fara at \u00e1virka f\u00f8royska samfelagi\u00f0?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jay.lxn.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/mar.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2391\" alt=\"mar\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lgbt.fo\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/mar.jpg?resize=430%2C309&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"430\" height=\"309\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nEg eri amerikanskur samfelagsfr\u00f8\u00f0ingur vi\u00f0 serkunnleika til tv\u00f8rmentanarliga s\u00e1larfr\u00f8\u00f0i, og \u00ed fj\u00f8r summar var eg \u00ed F\u00f8royum og kanna\u00f0i hesar spurningar.<br \/>\nT\u00e1 bendi fj\u00f8lmi\u00f0laumr\u00f8\u00f0an \u00e1, at sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0ini um LGBT-r\u00e6ttindi v\u00f3ru r\u00e6ttiliga javnt b\u00fdtt. Men av t\u00ed, at f\u00f3lk vi\u00f0 minnilutasj\u00f3narmi\u00f0um ofta eru yvirumbo\u00f0a\u00f0 \u00ed fj\u00f8lmi\u00f0lunum, so var eg sannf\u00f8rd um, at ta\u00f0 var sera umr\u00e1\u00f0andi at gera eina kanning og beinlei\u00f0is spyrja f\u00f8royingar, hvat teir hugsa um hetta m\u00e1li\u00f0.<br \/>\nTil tess gj\u00f8rdi eg eitt spurnabla\u00f0, sum eg gav hundra\u00f0tals f\u00f8royingum, b\u00e6\u00f0i um alneti\u00f0 og pers\u00f3nliga, og f\u00f3lk fr\u00e1 mongum ymsum bygdum lutt\u00f3ku eisini.<\/p>\n<p><strong>F\u00f8royingar eru fyri samkyndum hj\u00fanabondum<\/strong><br \/>\nSerliga mugu vit geva g\u00e6tur, at meginparturin av \u00f8llum luttakarunum, sum g\u00f3vu s\u00edtt sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0, t\u00f3ku undir vi\u00f0 at l\u00f8ggilda samkynt hj\u00fanaband \u00ed F\u00f8royum (fyri stuttum kom Gallup F\u00f8royar til somu ni\u00f0urst\u00f8\u00f0u &#8211; hetta v\u00e1ttar, at spurnakanning m\u00edn er eftirfarandi).<br \/>\nHarafturat so hildu flestu av teimum spurdu \u00ed kanning m\u00edni ikki, at samkynt hj\u00fanaband ska\u00f0ar samfelagi\u00f0. At enda skal eg gera vart vi\u00f0, at meginparturin av teimum spurdu v\u00f3ru \u00f3samd vi\u00f0 ta hugsan, at samkyndleiki er \u00f3s\u00f8mi\u00acligur, \u00f3gudiligur ella \u00edm\u00f3ti n\u00e1tt\u00faruni. Av t\u00ed at summir tr\u00faarlei\u00f0arar hava sagt seg ivast \u00ed, um samkyndleiki er moralskt r\u00e6ttur, so er sera umr\u00e1\u00f0andi at vi\u00f0urkenna, at so m\u00e1lamiklir teir enn eru, so umbo\u00f0a teir ikki meirilutahugbur\u00f0in \u00ed F\u00f8royum.<br \/>\nGreitt er, at F\u00f8roya f\u00f3lk, sum heild, taka undir vi\u00f0 l\u00f8ggilding av samkyndum hj\u00fanabandi\u00f0. Summi munnu t\u00f3 f\u00f8ra fram, at limir \u00ed l\u00f3gg\u00e1vutingi ikki bara skulu umbo\u00f0a vilja veljarans, tey hava st\u00f8rri skyldur. Tey skulu eisini taka avger\u00f0ir, i\u00f0 gagna almenninginum. Vi\u00f0 hesum \u00ed huga, mugu vit kanna, hv\u00f8rja \u00e1virkan samkynt hj\u00fanaband hevur havt \u00e1 tey samfel\u00f8g, har ta\u00f0 er l\u00f8ggilt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ska\u00f0a samkynd hj\u00fanabond samfelagi\u00f0?<\/strong><br \/>\nN\u00f3gv hevda, at samkynt hj\u00fanaband og skr\u00e1sett parlag \u00ed Vesturevropa hevur samvirka\u00f0 til, at f\u00e6rri hinskynt giftast, fleiri skiljast, og at fleiri og fleiri b\u00f8rn ver\u00f0a f\u00f8dd uttanfyri hj\u00fanaband \u00ed hesum samfel\u00f8gum.<br \/>\nMen b\u00faskaparfr\u00f8\u00f0ingurin M.V. Lee Badgett hevur greina\u00f0 hesi t\u00f8l gj\u00f8lla, og hann v\u00edsir \u00e1, at \u00f8ll hesi r\u00e1kini longu h\u00f8vdu vunni\u00f0 hevd, langt \u00e1\u00f0renn lond, so sum Danmark og Ni\u00f0urlond, l\u00f8ggildu skr\u00e1sett parlag.<br \/>\nM\u00edn gransking er samb\u00e6rilig vi\u00f0 gransking Badgetts. \u00cd F\u00f8royum hava vit s\u00e6\u00f0 somu r\u00e1kini vi\u00f0v\u00edkjandi hj\u00fanabandi, eitt n\u00fa at f\u00e6rri giftast og mong skiljast, sum eru sta\u00f0fest \u00ed \u00f8\u00f0rum nor\u00f0urlendskum samfel\u00f8gum.<br \/>\nVeruleikin er tann, at upp til 50 prosent av f\u00f8royskum b\u00f8rnum v\u00f3r\u00f0u f\u00f8dd uttan fyri hj\u00fanaband s\u00ed\u00f0stu \u00e1rini. Hetta er grei\u00f0 \u00e1bending um, at heilt onnur vi\u00f0urskifti liggja til grundar fyri hesum r\u00e1kunum, enn tey, i\u00f0 eru \u00edm\u00f3ti samkyndum hj\u00fanabandi\u00f0, st\u00fara fyri.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kunnleiki og vitan minkar um \u00f3tta og ford\u00f3mar<\/strong><br \/>\nLat okkum venda aftur til sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0 F\u00f8roya f\u00f3lks.<br \/>\nEg havi pr\u00f3gva\u00f0, at meirilutin \u00ed F\u00f8royum sigur ja til samkynt hj\u00fanaband. Hetta merkir t\u00f3 ikki, at vit skulu kveistra sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0ini hj\u00e1 minnilutanum burtur. Kortini vil eg f\u00f8ra fram, at mong av teimum, sum \u00ed dag eru \u00edm\u00f3ti samkyndum hj\u00fanabandi\u00f0, fara at broyta hugsan komandi \u00e1rini.<br \/>\nSamfelagsfr\u00f8\u00f0ingar hava fer\u00f0 eftir fer\u00f0 v\u00edst, at t\u00e1 f\u00f3lk uppliva ymisleika, so hava \u00f3tti og ford\u00f3mar teirra m\u00f3tvegis \u00f8\u00f0rum b\u00f3lkum lyndi til at minka.Vi\u00f0 \u00f8\u00f0rum or\u00f0um, vilt t\u00fa beina fyri mismuni, gev f\u00f3lkum h\u00f8vi at kennast.<br \/>\nTa\u00f0 er \u00e1hugavert, at teir f\u00f8royingar, sum s\u00f8gdu seg vera m\u00f3ti javnr\u00e6tti \u00ed kanning m\u00edni, ofta eisini s\u00f8gdu, at tey kendu seg illa vi\u00f0 \u00ed samveru vi\u00f0 LGBTarar.<br \/>\nHetta bendir \u00e1, at atfinning teirra m\u00f3ti LGBT-l\u00f3garr\u00e6ttindum kanska heilt einfalt er grunda\u00f0 \u00e1 vantandi royndir teirra vi\u00f0 teimum f\u00f3lkum, hesar l\u00f3gir \u00e1virka. Men vi\u00f0 vaksandi v\u00e6lvild m\u00f3tvegis LGBTarum \u00ed F\u00f8roym, fara f\u00e6rri kanska at f\u00f8la seg noydd at dylja kynssamleika s\u00edn og kennast vi\u00f0, at tey eru samkynd. Hetta fer so at bera vi\u00f0 s\u00e6r, at f\u00f3lk, sum gerast illa vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 tankan um samkyndleika \u00ed dag, skj\u00f3tt munnu \u00e1sanna, at mong av teimum tey eru g\u00f3\u00f0 vi\u00f0 &#8211; vinf\u00f3lk, starvsfelagar og familja &#8211; hoyra til henda k\u00faga\u00f0a b\u00f3lk. T\u00edskil er \u00ed v\u00e6ntu, at sj\u00e1lvt tey, sum \u00ed dag siga nei til samkynt hj\u00fanaband, fara at broyta hugbur\u00f0 t\u00e1 tey uppliva meiri ymisleika.<br \/>\nVi\u00f0 hesum sannroyndum \u00ed huga, eggi eg F\u00f8roya f\u00f3lki til h\u00e1tt og greitt at bera fram stu\u00f0ul s\u00edn til l\u00f8ggilding av samkyndum hj\u00fanabandi \u00ed F\u00f8royum. Henda l\u00f3garbroyting umbo\u00f0ar vilja F\u00f8roya f\u00f3lks &#8211; \u00ed dag og \u00ed morgin.<\/p>\n<p><em>Mariah G. Schug er doktari \u00ed mannfr\u00f8\u00f0i og lektari \u00e1 S\u00e1larfr\u00f8\u00f0i Deildini \u00e1 Wesleyan University \u00ed Connecticut, USA. Hon er serfr\u00f8\u00f0ingur \u00ed tv\u00f8rmentanarligari s\u00e1larfr\u00f8\u00f0i, og ser\u00f8ki hennara fevnir um gransking \u00ed ford\u00f3mum og hugbur\u00f0um millum b\u00f3lkar.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Dimmal\u00e6tting \u00a9 2013<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cd heyst skal L\u00f8gtingi\u00f0 taka st\u00f8\u00f0u til eitt s\u00f8guligt m\u00e1l: Eigur samkynt hj\u00fanaband at loyvast og javnstillast \u00ed l\u00f3gini? 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