{"id":2242,"date":"2016-01-22T22:15:36","date_gmt":"2016-01-22T22:15:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lgbt.fo\/2016\/01\/22\/hoyringsskriv-til-mentanarnevndina-raettarnevndina-og-trivnadarnevndina-fra-lgbt-foroyum\/"},"modified":"2016-01-22T22:15:36","modified_gmt":"2016-01-22T22:15:36","slug":"hoyringsskriv-til-mentanarnevndina-raettarnevndina-og-trivnadarnevndina-fra-lgbt-foroyum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lgbt.fo\/en\/2016\/01\/22\/hoyringsskriv-til-mentanarnevndina-raettarnevndina-og-trivnadarnevndina-fra-lgbt-foroyum\/","title":{"rendered":"Hoyringsskriv til Mentanar-, R\u00e6ttar- og Trivna\u00f0arnevndina fr\u00e1 LGBT F\u00f8royum"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00f3\u00f0a dag \u00f8ll somul og vegna nevndina \u00ed LGBT F\u00f8royar vil eg fegin siga st\u00f3ra takk fyri, at vit v\u00f3ru bj\u00f3\u00f0a\u00f0i til hoyringar her \u00ed dag \u00ed hesum \u2013 fyri okkum \u2013 sera t\u00fd\u00f0andi og avgerandi m\u00e1li, sum er alt avgerandi fyri okkara framt\u00ed\u00f0 sum borgarar \u00ed F\u00f8royum.<\/p>\n<p>Vit vilja stutt gj\u00f8gnumganga tilfari, sum liggur frammanfyri tykkum, og sum tit so hava m\u00f8guleika at lesa n\u00e6rri seinni.<\/p>\n<p>Talan er um fakta, uppl\u00fdsingar og tilfar annars um nakrar ofta settar spurningar, misskilningar og p\u00e1standir um LGBTarar og hj\u00fanabandi\u00f0.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lgbt.fo\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/limir.jpg?ssl=1\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2777\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2777\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lgbt.fo\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/limir.jpg?resize=430%2C324&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"limir\" width=\"430\" height=\"324\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Vit vilja v\u00edsa \u00e1 14 ymisk \u00f8ki:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>1. Samkynd er eitt n\u00fdtt og \u00fatlendsk fyribrigdi!?<\/h3>\n<p>(Nei, ta\u00f0 er ta\u00f0 sj\u00e1lvandi ikki. Vit hava alt\u00ed\u00f0 veri\u00f0 her, h\u00f3ast vit ikki alt\u00ed\u00f0 hava veri\u00f0 eins sj\u00f3nlig sum vit eru \u00ed dag. Tit eru v\u00e6lkomin at hyggja n\u00e6r eftir yvirlit yvir F\u00f8royska LGBT s\u00f8guna, sum liggur \u00ed pakkanum <a href=\"http:\/\/jay.lxn.mybluehost.me\/?page_id=118\">har<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<h3>2. At vera sam-, tv\u00ed- og tv\u00f8rkyndur er ikki n\u00e1turligt!?<\/h3>\n<p>(Ein \u00f8rgrynna av v\u00edsindaligum pr\u00f3gvum sta\u00f0festa, at hetta ikki passar. Vit noy\u00f0ast hv\u00f8rki at leita leingi ella v\u00ed\u00f0a eftir r\u00edkiligum d\u00f8mum um kynsligt margfeldi \u00ed dj\u00f3raheiminum. Sam-, tv\u00ed- og tv\u00f8rkyndur atbur\u00f0ur er skjalpr\u00f3gva\u00f0ur hj\u00e1 umlei\u00f0 1.500 dj\u00f3rasl\u00f8gum, so \u00e1sannast m\u00e1, at \u00f3metaliga st\u00f3rt kynsligt margfeldi er at s\u00edggja \u00ed n\u00e1tt\u00faruni. Meira kunning um hetta evni\u00f0 er at s\u00edggja \u00ed tilfarinum fr\u00e1 lista- og v\u00edsindaframs\u00fdningini \u201cHvat er nat\u00farligt?\u201d, sum var at s\u00edggja \u00ed \u00d8str\u00f8m \u00ed 2012)<\/p>\n<h3>3. Hj\u00fanabandi\u00f0 er s\u00f8guliga st\u00f8\u00f0ugt og \u00f3broytiligt!?<\/h3>\n<p>(Hesin p\u00e1standur er aftur langt fr\u00e1 sannur. Tit kunnu lesa meira um hetta \u00ed <a href=\"http:\/\/jay.lxn.mybluehost.me\/?page_id=2440\" target=\"_blank\">greinar\u00f8\u00f0ini<\/a>, i\u00f0 eg havi skriva\u00f0 vi\u00f0 hj\u00e1lp fr\u00e1 Hans Andrias S\u00f8lvar\u00e1, s\u00f8gufr\u00f8\u00f0ingi, um veruligu s\u00f8guna hj\u00e1 hj\u00fanabandinum \u00edgj\u00f8gnum t\u00ed\u00f0ina)<\/p>\n<h3>4. F\u00f8royska hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3gin er \u00f3broytilig!?<\/h3>\n<p>(Hetta passar heldur ikki. Um samkyndir f\u00f8royingar f\u00e1a innivist \u00ed hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3gini \u00ed F\u00f8royum, so er ta\u00f0 ikki fyrstu fer\u00f0, at hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3gin ver\u00f0ur broytt her \u00e1 landi. Okkara hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3gir eru longu broyttar \u00ed minsta lagi 12 fer\u00f0ir. Harumframt eru h\u00f3purin av ymiskum kunnger\u00f0um, \u00e1setingum og rundskrivum sett \u00ed og \u00far gildi \u00edgj\u00f8gnum \u00e1r og dag, og hava hesi \u00f8ll \u00e1virka\u00f0 hj\u00fanabandi\u00f0. Vit hava <a href=\"http:\/\/jay.lxn.mybluehost.me\/?p=2722\" target=\"_blank\">vi\u00f0heft<\/a> eina s\u00f8guliga gj\u00f8gnumgongd av hesum 12 broytingunum \u00ed pakkanum. S\u00ed\u00f0st vit broyttu l\u00f3gin var \u00ed 2002, t\u00e1 galdandi hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3g kom \u00ed sta\u00f0in fyri l\u00f3g fr\u00e1 1922. N\u00faverandi l\u00f3g er harumframt longu broytt tv\u00e6r fer\u00f0ir \u00ed samband vi\u00f0 fylgibroytingar, so ta\u00f0 er einki sl\u00f3\u00f0br\u00f3tandi ella \u00f3vanligt vi\u00f0 at dagf\u00f8ra hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3gir \u00ed F\u00f8royum.)<\/p>\n<h3>5. Hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3gin hevur alt\u00ed\u00f0 veri\u00f0 galdandi fyri \u00f8ll f\u00f8roysk hinskynd p\u00f8r!?<\/h3>\n<p>(Hetta er als ikki so. Ta\u00f0 er ein h\u00f3pur av hinskyndum f\u00f8royingum, sum s\u00f8guliga eisini hava veri\u00f0 \u00fatih\u00fdst \u00far f\u00f8roysku hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3gunum. Vit kunnu nevna <a href=\"http:\/\/jay.lxn.mybluehost.me\/?p=2735\" target=\"_blank\">hesi<\/a>: fr\u00e1skyld (1380-1922), f\u00f3lk, sum ikki ynskja at giftast \u00ed f\u00f3lkakirkjuni (1563-1851), f\u00f3lk uttan \u201dsin rette fornuft og forstand\u201d (1688-1922), ognarleys (1777-1846), menn, i\u00f0 m\u00f3ttaka almenna forsorgarhj\u00e1lp (1923-2002), f\u00f3lk vi\u00f0 kynssj\u00faku (1922-2002), s\u00e1larsj\u00fak (1922-2002), psykopatar (1922-2002), menningartarna\u00f0i (1922-2002), evnaveik (1922-2002), f\u00f3lk vi\u00f0 epilepsi. \u201cAf hensyn til epilepsiens \u00bbart og farlighed for \u00e6gteskabets lykke og b\u00f8rnene\u00ab\u201d (1922-2002) og kroniskt alkoholikarar (1922-2002).)<\/p>\n<h3>6. Samkynd hj\u00fanabond oy\u00f0ileggja \u201csi\u00f0bundin\u201d hinskynd hj\u00fanabond!?<\/h3>\n<p>(Henda p\u00e1standin hevur Dr. Mariah Schug vi\u00f0gj\u00f8rt \u00ed ensku greinini <a href=\"http:\/\/articles.courant.com\/2013-04-04\/news\/hc-op-schug-justices-gay-marriage-worries-misplace-20130404_1_gay-marriage-m-v-lee-badgett-traditional-marriage\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cJustices&#8217; Gay Marriage Worries Misplaced\u201d<\/a>, sum hon skriva\u00f0i \u00ed samband vi\u00f0 eina vi\u00f0ger\u00f0 hj\u00e1 amerikanska h\u00e6gsta r\u00e6ttindi um arvaskatt og l\u00edknandi hj\u00e1 samkyndum p\u00f8rum \u00ed 2013. \u00cd greinini v\u00edsir mannfr\u00f8\u00f0ingurin \u00e1, at \u00f8ll Nor\u00f0urlond hava innf\u00f8rt samkynd hj\u00fanabond uttan F\u00f8royar. H\u00f3ast hetta er sama gongdin at s\u00edggja \u00ed F\u00f8royum. Her eru eisini st\u00f3rt tal av hj\u00fanaskilna\u00f0um og meirilutin av b\u00f8rnum, vera \u00ed dag f\u00f8dd uttanfyri hj\u00fanabandi\u00f0, eins og \u00ed \u00f8llum hinum Nor\u00f0urlondunum. T\u00ed eru ta\u00f0 onnur vi\u00f0skifti, i\u00f0 mugu \u00e1virka samfelagsmynstri \u00ed hinkyndum paral\u00f8gum og ikki bara t\u00ed, at samkynd hava fingi\u00f0 somu r\u00e6ttindi sum hinskynd.<\/p>\n<p>Vit samkyndu eru ikki h\u00f3ttanin m\u00f3ti si\u00f0bundnu hinskyndu kjarnafamiljuni. Hinskynd hava av s\u00ednum egnum eintingum megna at broytt t\u00fddning av dagins hinskynda hj\u00fanabandinum \u00ed F\u00f8royum. Ta\u00f0 eru j\u00fa h\u00f3ast alt hinskynd, sum f\u00f8\u00f0a meira enn helvtina av s\u00ednum b\u00f8rnum uttanfyri hj\u00fanabandi, og ta\u00f0 er 3. hv\u00f8r hinskyndur, sum letur seg skilja \u00ed dagsins F\u00f8royum. At samkynd eisini sleppa at giftast og skiljast, fer ikki at \u00e1virka hesa gongdina. \u00c1k\u00e6randi hinskynd og traditi\u00f3nistar eru noydd at hyggja \u00ed spegilin, og minni at okkum LGBTarar.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Hetta er ein \u00f3nd gl\u00ed\u00f0ibreyt!?<\/h3>\n<p>(Ja, ta\u00f0 skal einki ivam\u00e1l vera \u00ed, at talan eru um eina gl\u00ed\u00f0ubreyt, t\u00e1 ta\u00f0 kemur til okkara r\u00e6ttindi. Men ta\u00f0 er ikki tann perversa, kriminella og ofta sera kreativa gl\u00ed\u00f0ubreytin, sum okkara m\u00f3tst\u00f8\u00f0uf\u00f3lk droyma og sp\u00e1\u00f0a um. Okkara gl\u00ed\u00f0ubreyt f\u00f8rir hinvegin til full javnr\u00e6ttindi fyri allar okkara limir. Tit kunnu hyggja n\u00e6rri at <a href=\"https:\/\/scontent-ams2-1.xx.fbcdn.net\/hphotos-xaf1\/v\/t1.0-9\/12400843_1131852646826123_9131180118449126367_n.jpg?oh=090f3994dc03073d8f2fa3a91d15cbfc&amp;oe=5701B26E\" target=\"_blank\">vi\u00f0hefta tilfarinum<\/a> fr\u00e1 ILGA um t\u00ed veruligu gl\u00ed\u00f0ubreytina, og hvat skal til fyri, at allir LGBTarar skulu f\u00e1a full javnr\u00e6ttidni \u00ed einum moderna\u00f0um samfelag. \u00cd dag veitir F\u00f8royar bara 17% av hesum javnr\u00e6ttindum til okkara limir. Og partur av hesum prosentum koma umvegis donsk m\u00e1ls\u00f8ki, eitt n\u00fa \u00fatlendingam\u00e1l.<\/p>\n<p>Og nei, LGBT F\u00f8royar fer ikki at berjast fyri r\u00e6ttinum hj\u00e1 trimum ella fleiri f\u00f3lkum at giftast. Ei heldur fara vit at arbei\u00f0a fyri f\u00f3lkum, i\u00f0 skuldu ynskt at gifta seg vi\u00f0 dj\u00f3rum ella hvat anna\u00f0 okkara m\u00f3tst\u00f8\u00f0uf\u00f3lk n\u00fa kundu funni\u00f0 upp\u00e1 at lagt okkum undir.)<\/p>\n<h3>8. \u00cd einum f\u00f3lkar\u00e6\u00f0i er ta\u00f0 meirilutin, sum r\u00e6\u00f0ur!?<\/h3>\n<p>(Hetta er p\u00fara r\u00e6tt. Heili tr\u00edggjar kanningar hava v\u00edst, at ta\u00f0 er st\u00f3rur meiriluti millum f\u00f8royska veljarar at loyva samkyndum at giftast borgarliga \u00ed F\u00f8royum. Kanning, sum Gallup F\u00f8royar gj\u00f8rdi fyri LGBT F\u00f8royar v\u00edsti, at heili 68% av \u00f8llum f\u00f8royingum eldri enn 15 \u00e1r eru fyri hesum uppskotinum. Kanning, i\u00f0 somulei\u00f0is er gj\u00f8rd fyri Sosialin, seg\u00f0i 62% ac f\u00f8royingum v\u00f3ru fyri, me\u00f0an kanning, i\u00f0 Frams\u00f3kn lat gera v\u00edsti 63%. Vit hava <a href=\"http:\/\/nordlysid.fo\/68+siga+ja+til+samkynt+hjunaband.html\" target=\"_blank\">vi\u00f0lagt<\/a> \u00f8ll \u00farslitini fr\u00e1 okkara Gallup F\u00f8royar kanningini fr\u00e1 2013 \u00ed pakkanum.)<\/p>\n<h3>9. Hv\u00ed skulu tit giftast? Hv\u00ed ikki bara fara til advokat, og so er fri\u00f0ur?<\/h3>\n<p>(T\u00ed vit ynskja at vera javnsettir borgarar her \u00e1 landi. Vit hava fullan borgaraskap og vit gjalda skatt sum \u00f8ll onnur her \u00e1 landi. Vit krevja hv\u00f8rki meira ella minni enn hvat onnur longu hava. Hv\u00ed skulu vit br\u00faka n\u00f3gvar pengar til at fara til advokat, me\u00f0an tit onnur sleppa at gifta tykkum \u00f3keypis? Harumframt kanst t\u00fa aldrin f\u00e1a \u00f8ll tey somu r\u00e6ttindi, skyldur og \u00e1g\u00f3\u00f0ar bara vi\u00f0 at fara til advokat. Summar l\u00f3gir eru j\u00fa bara galdandi fyri hj\u00fan.<\/p>\n<p>Vit hava <a href=\"http:\/\/jay.lxn.mybluehost.me\/?p=2682\" target=\"_blank\">vi\u00f0heft<\/a> ein listi yvir flestu r\u00e6ttindi og skyldur, sum hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3gin \u00ed dag veitir hj\u00fanum \u00ed F\u00f8royum. Eg kann nevna: eftirnavn, f\u00edggjarligur stu\u00f0ul, uppihaldspeningur, almennar veitingar, fr\u00e1dr\u00e1ttur, skattur, skattskyldur, ognarfeli, serogn, avger\u00f0arr\u00e6ttur, g\u00e1vuavgjald, avsl\u00e1ttur, \u00f3skift b\u00fagv, pensj\u00f3n, tryggingar, arvar\u00e6ttur, innflyting og arvaavgjald.<\/p>\n<p>Harumframt er ta\u00f0 er altso ikki ta\u00f0, i\u00f0 t\u00fa sum barn gongur runt og droymir um. Ta\u00f0, at t\u00e1 eg veri\u00f0 st\u00f3r ella st\u00f3rur so fara eg og tann, sum eg elski og sum eg ynski at v\u00ed\u00f0a m\u00edtt l\u00edv til, til avdokat at gera ein s\u00e1ttm\u00e1la. Ta\u00f0 er also ikki serliga romantiskt! Dreymin um at giftast vi\u00f0 t\u00ed, sum vit elska, eiga allir f\u00f8royingar at hava m\u00f8guleika fyri at gera til veruleika \u2013 eisini vit LGBTarar.<\/p>\n<h3>10. N\u00e6r fara tit so at krevja um at sleppa inn \u00ed kirkjuna?<\/h3>\n<p>(Hetta m\u00e1li\u00f0 sn\u00fdr seg um javnr\u00e6tt, grunleggjandi sosial og borgarlig r\u00e6ttindi, har allir borgarar skulu vera l\u00edka fyri l\u00f3gini. Hetta sn\u00fdr seg als IKKI um at tro\u00f0ka seg inn \u00e1 \u00f8ki hj\u00e1 tr\u00fa\u00f0narligum b\u00f3lkum. LGBT F\u00f8royar fer ikki at arbei\u00f0a fyri at sleppa inn um kirkjug\u00e1tt. Hetta ynski m\u00e1 koma innan\u00edfr\u00e1 f\u00f3lkakirkjan. Men fyri, at ta\u00f0 tit \u00f8ll skulu kunnu kenna tykkum heilt trygg um hetta m\u00e1li\u00f0 og ikki minst henda sokalla\u00f0u gl\u00ed\u00f0ubreytini, so kunnu vit aftur v\u00edsa \u00e1 yvirliti\u00f0 hj\u00e1 ILGA, har \u00e1tr\u00fana\u00f0arlig m\u00e1l \u00e1 ongan h\u00e1tt vera tikin upp\u00e1 tungu.<\/p>\n<h3>11. Vit kunnu ikki diskriminera samkynd \u00fat \u00far f\u00f3lkakirkjuni!?<\/h3>\n<p>Vit vita \u00f8ll her inni, at meiriluti er ikki \u00ed dag fyri at loyva samkyndum at giftast \u00ed f\u00f8roysku f\u00f3lkakirkju. Hv\u00f8rki millum veljaran, f\u00f3lkakirkjuna ella her inni \u00ed l\u00f8gtinginum. T\u00ed er hetta ein pr\u00edsur, sum vit eru villig til at gjalda fyri r\u00e6ttin at giftast borgarliga \u00ed F\u00f8royum. Ta\u00f0 kann gott vera, at hetta fer at broytast vi\u00f0 t\u00ed\u00f0ini, og at einafer\u00f0 fer kirkjan at geva r\u00fam fyri okkum. Men vit hava ikki hug at b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir f\u00f3lkakirkjuni og hennara menning fyri at vit kunna liva okkara versliga l\u00edv fult \u00fat og \u00e1 j\u00f8vnum f\u00f8tum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0rar f\u00f8royingar. Vit vilja heldur vera \u00fatih\u00fdst \u00far kirkjuni enn \u00far f\u00f8royska samfelagnum. T\u00ed taka vit fult undir vi\u00f0 hesum uppskotinum.<\/p>\n<h3>12. Men tit eru so f\u00e1, hv\u00ed skulu vit hinskynd hugsa um tykkum og ikki bara konsentrera okkum um meirilutan, sum j\u00fa er hinskyndur?<\/h3>\n<p>(Eingin veit heilt neyvt hvussu n\u00f3gv f\u00f3lk eru sam-, tv\u00ed- ella tv\u00f8rkynd. Men flestu <a href=\"http:\/\/www.economist.com\/blogs\/economist-explains\/2015\/05\/economist-explains-3\" target=\"_blank\">altj\u00f3\u00f0a kanningar<\/a> v\u00edsa eitt tal millum 5-10% av f\u00f3lkatalinum, t\u00e1 vit tosa um allar b\u00f3kstavarnar \u00ed LGBTQIA. Ta\u00f0 vil siga, at \u00ed F\u00f8royum er eitt sta\u00f0 millum 2.400 og 4.800 borgarar \u00ed \u00f8llum aldrum og \u00ed \u00f8llum st\u00f8\u00f0um kring landi\u00f0, i\u00f0 eru antin sam-, tv\u00ed- ella tv\u00f8rkynd. Hesi somu f\u00f3lk hava b\u00f8rn, foreldur, systkin, ommur, abbar, familjulimir, vinir, starvsfelagar, grannar o.s.fr. Hetta s\u00edggja vit eisini \u00e1 okkara Facebook s\u00ed\u00f0u, har vit hava meira enn 9.000 vinir, sum er millum st\u00f8rstu f\u00f8roysku s\u00ed\u00f0urnar \u00e1 Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00edskil er ikki bara talan um nakar heilt f\u00e1ar einstaklingar, sum eru \u00e1virka\u00f0 av n\u00faverandi st\u00f8\u00f0u og eru fyri grovum mismuni \u00ed f\u00f8roysku l\u00f3gg\u00e1vuni. Vit tosa hinvegin um fleiri t\u00fasundtals f\u00f8royingar, i\u00f0 eisini eru borgarar, veljarar og skattgjaldarar, i\u00f0 sj\u00e1lvandi skulu hava innivist \u00ed landins l\u00f3gum \u00e1 sama st\u00f8\u00f0i sum allir a\u00f0rir borgarar.)<\/p>\n<h3>13. Samkynd kunnu ikki uppala b\u00f8rn. Ta\u00f0 ska\u00f0ar b\u00f8rnini!?<\/h3>\n<p>(S\u00ed\u00f0sta yvirliti fr\u00e1 Columbia Law School v\u00edsir, at ta\u00f0 eru skriva\u00f0ar 77 v\u00edsindaligar greinar s\u00ed\u00f0stu tr\u00edati \u00e1rini um hvussu b\u00f8rn, i\u00f0 vaksa upp hj\u00e1 samkyndum foreldur, hava ta\u00f0 og eru \u00e1virka\u00f0i av hesi uppaling.<\/p>\n<p>73 av hesum v\u00edsindaligu greinum koma til ta ni\u00f0urst\u00f8\u00f0u, at hesi b\u00f8rn ikki hava ta\u00f0 verri enn tey, sum vaksa upp hj\u00e1 hinskyndum foreldrum. 4 av hesum greinum v\u00edsa t\u00f3, at b\u00f8rn hj\u00e1 samkyndum p\u00f8rum hava ta\u00f0 verri. Vi\u00f0merkjast skal t\u00f3, at hesar 4 kanningarnar, granska\u00f0u einans b\u00f8rn, sum komu fr\u00e1 fr\u00e1skyldum og brotna\u00f0um heimum. Hetta ger \u00farsliti\u00f0 sj\u00e1lvandi neiligt, t\u00ed f\u00e1 b\u00f8rn uppliva fr\u00e1skilna sum eina jalig uppliving. Samanumtiki\u00f0 er st\u00f3r aljt\u00f3\u00f0a v\u00edsindalig semja um, at b\u00f8rn, i\u00f0 hava samkynd foreldur ella verjar, f\u00e1a ikki mein av hesi sannroynd.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed yvirliti\u00f0 <a href=\"http:\/\/whatweknow.law.columbia.edu\/topics\/lgbt-equality\/what-does-the-scholarly-research-say-about-the-wellbeing-of-children-with-gay-or-lesbian-parents\/\" target=\"_blank\">her<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>14. Hv\u00ed skulu vit alt\u00ed\u00f0 fylgja gongdini \u00ed okkara grannlondum? Hv\u00ed kunnu vit ikki bara ste\u00f0ga menningini?<\/h3>\n<p>(F\u00f8roya L\u00f8gting samtykti 31. mars 1987 at seta \u201cConvention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women\u201d (CEDAW) s\u00e1ttm\u00e1lan \u00ed gildi. S\u00e1ttm\u00e1lin er sostatt f\u00f3lkar\u00e6ttarliga bindandi fyri F\u00f8royar eins og fyri restina av danska kongar\u00edkinum. S\u00ed\u00f0ani hava F\u00f8royar, Gr\u00f8nland og Danmark vi\u00f0 j\u00f8vnum millumbili veri\u00f0 til pr\u00f3vt\u00f8ku \u00ed CEDAW-nevndini hj\u00e1 Sameindu Tj\u00f3\u00f0um (ST), har nevndin kemur vi\u00f0 ymiskum tilm\u00e6lum um, hvat londini kunnu gera fyri at r\u00f8kka endam\u00e1linum \u00ed ST s\u00e1ttm\u00e1lanum, sum hesi hava bundi\u00f0 seg til at halda.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cd 2015 v\u00f3ru f\u00f8royskar LGBT kvinnur tiknar vi\u00f0 \u00ed tilm\u00e6lini fr\u00e1 ST. Tilm\u00e6li\u00f0 nr. 35 sigur solei\u00f0is: \u201cThe Committee notes the inadequacy of support services, non-discrimination, for lesbian, bisexual and transgender women.\u201d Me\u00f0an tilm\u00e6li\u00f0 nr. 36 heldur fram: \u201cThe Committee recommends that the State party envisage undertaking an assessment of difficulties faced by lesbian, bisexual and transgender women with the aim of ensuring the full fulfilment of their rights.\u201d ST nevndin sigur sostatt, at f\u00f8royskir myndugleikar skulu virka fyri, at LGBT kvinnur \u00ed F\u00f8royum ikki eru fyri mismuni og f\u00e1a full javnr\u00e6ttindi \u00e1 j\u00f8vnum f\u00f8ti vi\u00f0 hinkyndar kvinnur og menn. F\u00f8royar skulu aftur til \u2018pr\u00f3vt\u00f8ka\u2019 hj\u00e1 ST \u00ed 2019. T\u00e1 skulu F\u00f8royar helst kunna v\u00edsa \u00e1, at vit hava fylgt tilm\u00e6lunum, i\u00f0 vit n\u00fa hava fingi\u00f0 fr\u00e1 ST.<\/p>\n<p>ST nevndini fyri kvinnur\u00e6ttindum er ikki fyrsti altj\u00f3\u00f0a felagsskapur, i\u00f0 tilm\u00e6lir politisku skipanini \u00ed F\u00f8royum at veita javnr\u00e6ttindi til s\u00ednar LGBT borgarar. Framanundan hava eitt n\u00fa Amnesty International og Nor\u00f0urlenska ungd\u00f3msr\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 gj\u00f8rt ta\u00f0 sama.<\/p>\n<p>Eisini hava ungamannfel\u00f8guni hj\u00e1 Tj\u00f3\u00f0veldi, Javna\u00f0arflokkinum, Frams\u00f3kn og Sambandsflokkinum einm\u00e6lt heitt \u00e1 tykkum tinglimir um at siga ja til at loyva samkyndum at giftast borgarliga \u00ed F\u00f8royum)<\/p>\n<p>_______<\/p>\n<p>Vit vilja m\u00f3ti enda minna \u00e1, at talan er um eitt \u00fatrei\u00f0sluneutralt uppskot.<\/p>\n<p>Javnr\u00e6ttindi eru ikki sum fiskir\u00e6ttindi. Eingin missur naka\u00f0 um onnur f\u00e1a. Hvat fer av tykkum, um tit loyva okkum at f\u00e1a papp\u00edr upp\u00e1 hv\u00f8nn annan?<\/p>\n<p>Hinvegin hevur henda l\u00f3garbroytingin sera n\u00f3gv at siga fyri okkum og okkara limir.<\/p>\n<p>Hetta hevur eisini st\u00f3rt symbolskt vir\u00f0i\u00f0 fyri okkara &#8211; t\u00edverri alt ov mongu \u00fatisetar &#8211; og ikki bara LGBTarar \u00ed \u00fatlegd, men eisini hinkyndar f\u00f8royingar, i\u00f0 bev\u00edst velja F\u00f8royar fr\u00e1, t\u00ed n\u00faverandi st\u00f8\u00f0a sendir tekin um eitt intolerant og litleyst samfelag, i\u00f0 ikki verjir s\u00ednar veikastu borgarar, og ta\u00f0 er ikki serliga tiltrekkjandi fyri ungar og frams\u00f8knar \u00fatisetar.<\/p>\n<p>Ta\u00f0 er avgj\u00f8rt eisini bara ein spurningur um t\u00ed\u00f0, \u00e1\u00f0renn hini Nor\u00f0urlondini &#8211; og ikki minst Nor\u00f0urlandsr\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 &#8211; fer at leggja tr\u00fdst \u00e1 okkum sum tj\u00f3\u00f0, fyri at f\u00e1a okkum at fara eins vi\u00f0 \u00f8llum okkara borgarum &#8211; serliga um vit ynskja at var\u00f0veita ella v\u00ed\u00f0ka okkara limaskap \u00ed R\u00e1\u00f0num.<\/p>\n<p>At enda vilja vit fortelja tykkum ein l\u00edtil s\u00f8gu\u2026<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lgbt.fo\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/lovning.jpg?ssl=1\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2775\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2775\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lgbt.fo\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/lovning.jpg?resize=430%2C304&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"lovning\" width=\"430\" height=\"304\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00cd 1967 v\u00f3ru Mildred Jeter, sum var litt \u00e1 liti og Richard Loving, i\u00f0 var hv\u00edtur ma\u00f0ur, d\u00f3md at sita \u00ed fongsil \u00ed 1 \u00e1r fyri at hava gift seg \u00f3l\u00f3gliga \u00ed amerikanska statinum Virginina. Hetta var \u00f3l\u00f3gligt, t\u00ed f\u00f3lk av ymiskum rasun h\u00f8vdu ikki loyvi\u00f0 at giftast hv\u00f8r vi\u00f0 \u00f8\u00f0rum \u00ed 1967.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00e1li\u00f0 enda\u00f0i \u00ed amerikanska h\u00e6gsta r\u00e6tti, sum avgj\u00f8rdi, at her var talan um brot \u00e1 amerikansku grundl\u00f3gina, og hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3gin \u00ed USA t\u00ed skuldi broytast, so f\u00f3lk av ymiskum rasun kundu giftast hv\u00f8r vi\u00f0 \u00f8\u00f0rum.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cd dag \u00f8tast tey flestu av okkum, at sl\u00edkt kundi vera \u00f3l\u00f3gligt l\u00edka fram til 1967. At tvey tr\u00f8llvaksin f\u00f3lk kundu vera nokta\u00f0i at ganga saman \u00ed hj\u00fanaband, bara t\u00ed tey ikki h\u00f8vdu sama h\u00fa\u00f0alit.<\/p>\n<p>Hesa t\u00ed\u00f0ina var samstundis st\u00f3r m\u00f3tst\u00f8\u00f0a m\u00f3ti at gera gj\u00f8gnumf\u00f8ra hesa broytingina \u00ed amerikansku hj\u00fanabandsl\u00f3gini. M\u00f3tm\u00e6lini v\u00f3ru b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00f3gvuslig og til t\u00ed\u00f0ir beinlei\u00f0is harlig.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00edverri var henda m\u00f3tst\u00f8\u00f0a ikki so n\u00f3gv \u00f8\u00f0rv\u00edsi enn tann m\u00f3tst\u00f8\u00f0an, sum vit sum LGBTarar kenna \u00e1 okkara kroppi \u00ed F\u00f8royum \u00ed dag.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00edn spurningur til tykkum her til s\u00ed\u00f0st, er t\u00ed hesin: Hv\u00f8rja s\u00ed\u00f0a av s\u00f8guni ynskja tit sum politikkarar og sum menniskju at vera \u00e1?<\/p>\n<p>Hvussu ynskja tit at svara tykkara b\u00f8rnum og ommu- og abbab\u00f8rnum, t\u00e1 tey fara at spyrja tykkum, hv\u00f8rja s\u00ed\u00f0u tit v\u00f3ru \u00e1 \u00ed dagsins st\u00f3ra mannar\u00e6ttindam\u00e1li \u2013 n\u00fa tit h\u00f8vdu m\u00f8guleikan at gera l\u00edvi\u00f0 l\u00e6ttari og javnr\u00e6ttari fyri okkum sum minnilutab\u00f3lk?<\/p>\n<p>Vit vita \u00d8LL, at hesi r\u00e6ttindi fara koma upp\u00e1 pl\u00e1ss fyrr ella seinni.<\/p>\n<p>Spurningurin er bara um tit her inni, vilja vera vi\u00f0 til at taka hetta stigi\u00f0 \u00ed dag\u2026..ella um tit heldur vilja skrivast inn \u00ed s\u00f8gurb\u00f8kurnar eins og hesi m\u00f3tm\u00e6lisf\u00f3lkini \u00ed b\u00fdnum Little Rock, Arkansar \u00ed 1967, \u00ed dag eru skriva\u00f0i?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lgbt.fo\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Little-Rock.jpg?ssl=1\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2776\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2776\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lgbt.fo\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Little-Rock.jpg?resize=430%2C285&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Little-Rock\" width=\"430\" height=\"285\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Vali\u00f0 er tykkara!<\/p>\n<p>Takk fyri, at tit vildu lurta efitir okkum \u00ed dag, og vit vilja sj\u00e1lvandi m\u00e6la til at tit tilm\u00e6la hetta uppskoti\u00f0 og atkv\u00f8\u00f0a fyri \u00f8llum trimum l\u00f3garbroytingunum.<\/p>\n<p>Takk fyri!<\/p>\n<p>Vegna LGBT 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