{"id":1549,"date":"2011-07-08T17:38:49","date_gmt":"2011-07-08T16:38:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lgbt.fo\/lgbt-hetjur-2\/avvardandi\/"},"modified":"2026-02-15T13:17:31","modified_gmt":"2026-02-15T13:17:31","slug":"avvardandi","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/lgbt.fo\/en\/avvardandi\/","title":{"rendered":"Avvar\u00f0andi"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Fyri tey flestu avvar\u00f0andi er ta\u00f0, at f\u00e1a at vita, at barn t\u00edtt er samkynt, tv\u00edkynt ella tv\u00f8rkynt, ikki naka\u00f0 t\u00fa v\u00e6ntar. T\u00edskil ver\u00f0ur t\u00fa ofta tikin \u00e1 b\u00f3li vi\u00f0 t\u00ed\u00f0indunum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ta\u00f0 er umr\u00e1\u00f0andi, at t\u00fa tekur \u00edm\u00f3ti t\u00ed\u00f0indunum vi\u00f0 opnum sinni. N\u00f3gv samkynd, tv\u00edkynd og tv\u00f8rkynd minnast enn \u00e1, hvussu ringt ta\u00f0 var at siga, hvat t\u00fa ert, og hvussu neiliga summi foreldrini t\u00f3ku \u00edm\u00f3ti t\u00ed\u00f0indunum. Ta\u00f0, sum fyri tey sj\u00e1lvi ofta er eitt sera jaligt upplivilsi, kann gerst eitt sera neiligt upplivilsi \u00ed sprettisamr\u00f8\u00f0uni vi\u00f0 foreldur og onnur avvar\u00f0andi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e1 d\u00f3ttir t\u00edn ella sonur t\u00edn er komin hagar, at tey eru kl\u00e1r at spretta og siga t\u00e6r sannleikan, so eru tey aloftast p\u00fara grei\u00f0ur yvir, at vi\u00f0komandi er samkynd\/ur, tv\u00edkynd\/ur ella tv\u00f8rkynd\/ur. Talan er ikki um eina fasu \u00ed eitt styttri t\u00ed\u00f0arskei\u00f0, og so ver\u00f0ur vent aftur til “leiklutin” sum hinskynd\/ur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Talan er sj\u00e1lvandi ikki um eitt val. Vit eru \u00f8ll f\u00f8dd solei\u00f0is, og hev\u00f0i t\u00fa kunna valt, so hev\u00f0i t\u00fa neyvan valt at vera t.d. samkyndur, t\u00ed dagsins samfelag hevur gj\u00f8rt ta\u00f0 munandi l\u00e6ttari at veri\u00f0 hinskyndur. Men solei\u00f0is er l\u00edvi\u00f0 bara ikki, og t\u00ed mugu avvar\u00f0andi fyrihalda seg vi\u00f0 tann veruleika tey liva \u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00fa veitst t\u00fa ta\u00f0! – Hvat so?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ta\u00f0 kann v\u00e6l vera, at t\u00fa sum foreldur fert at uppliva sorg, vrei\u00f0i, skuldarkenslu og eina kenslu av at hava “mist” t\u00edtt barn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allar hesar kenslur eru vanligar og p\u00fara nat\u00farligar. Men ta\u00f0 er t\u00fddningarmiki\u00f0, at t\u00fa minist til, at barn t\u00edtt er ikki broytt, ta\u00f0 er akkur\u00e1t sami pers\u00f3nur, sum t\u00fa hevur givi\u00f0 l\u00edvs og elska s\u00ed\u00f0ani ta\u00f0 var\u00f0 f\u00f8tt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00fa kanst eisini gerast bilsin yvir, hvussu n\u00f3gvar g\u00f3\u00f0a eginleikar eitt LGBT barn kann hava, sum t\u00fa ikki hev\u00f0i fingi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 einum hinskyndum barni. Annars eru ikki teir st\u00f3ru munirnir \u00e1 samkyndum og hinskyndum b\u00f8rnum. Tey hava \u00f8ll sama k\u00e6rleika til s\u00edni foreldur, tey forelska seg \u00ed \u00f8\u00f0rum f\u00f3lkum, tey kenna hjartasorg, tey stovna s\u00edna egnu familju og tey hj\u00e1lpa s\u00ednum foreldrum, t\u00e1 i\u00f0 tey hava t\u00f8rv \u00e1 t\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stu\u00f0la t\u00ednum samkynda barni \u00ed teirra veruliga kynsleika – ta\u00f0 styrkir tann samkynda og kann vera vi\u00f0 til, at vi\u00f0komandi fer at tr\u00edvast sum samkynd\/ur \u00ed F\u00f8royum. Ger eisini, at barni\u00f0 ikki kennir seg noyddan at flyta av landinum, eins og onnur \u00e6ttarli\u00f0 framman undan hava kent seg noyddan til.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Avvar\u00f0andi er ikki einans foreldur. Ta\u00f0 eru eisini onnur \u00ed familjuni, vinir, kenningar, grannar og starvsfelagar. Men ta\u00f0 kann eisini vera b\u00f8rn og fyrrverandi hj\u00fanafelagar hj\u00e1 samkyndum, tv\u00edkyndum og tv\u00f8rkyndum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Samband<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ynskir t\u00fa sum avvar\u00f0andi at tosa um t\u00edni vi\u00f0urksifti, so ber til at seta teg \u00ed samband vi\u00f0 “LGBT r\u00e1\u00f0gevingina” \u00e1 lgbt@lgbt.fo. Vit lurta og veglei\u00f0a t\u00e6r fegin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vit hava eisini ein stu\u00f0ulsb\u00f3lk fyri foreldur at samkyndum, tv\u00edkyndum og transpers\u00f3num. Ynskir t\u00fa at taka lut \u00ed hesum b\u00f3lk, so ber til at melda teg til umvegis teldupost: lgbt@lgbt.fo<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Um n\u00f3g st\u00f3rur \u00e1hugi er, vilja vit fegin vera vi\u00f0 til at seta \u00e1 stovn enn fleiri stu\u00f0ulsb\u00f3lkar fyri onnur avvar\u00f0andi.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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